Op-ed: Is he attractive or just unavailable?



DURHAM, NC—Often times, it’s important to take a step back and reevaluate: is that guy really your dream man, or is he just unavailable to you? Is he really a caring, considerate guy, or does he just have a girlfriend and can’t be with you? Is he as charming and kind as you think, or did you just promise your friend she could have him?


Maybe he really is the one. Maybe you really do like him because he truly is a great guy. Maybe he’s the one you want to introduce to your parents and spend the rest of your days with and--oh wait he just asked to hang out. Yeah, I don’t know if he’s my type.